These same people ask me why I'm sailing and if it's worth the extreme lifestyle adjustments. One does get accustomed to the challenges of weeks on the water, and where once before I was dreading the passages for the same reasons above, I'm now enjoying them. I'm able to catch up on reading. I'm learning much about navigation and marine equipment and electronics, not to mention how to sail. I'm writing in my journal, and I'm thinking up business ideas and inventions to pursue in hopes they'll be profitable enough to provide me with the flexibility to eventually own a sailboat of my own. It's a priority on passage to make time to learn anything about the next destination; this proves to be extremely valuable since people we meet while in port are always impressed with any amount of knowledge a stranger possesses about their home. I also spend hours to reflect on the amazing place we're sailing from, the sights we saw, the friends we made, and especially the lessons we learned.
The greatest and most valuable lesson I've learned so far in each port is how kind strangers can be to other strangers. Everywhere we go we're welcomed into peoples homes and lives. We've attended numerous family dinners, birthdays, bbq's (or in South Africa, braai's), house parties, church functions, holidays, nights out, and a few times get togethers were held in our honor.
Even though I feel overwhelmingly thankful for this experience of a lifetime and to all those who've supported me with this decision--both those at home and those I've met along the way--I'm sometimes not sure if this extreme lifestyle adjustment is the right choice. I'm at an age when I "should" be settling down, focusing on growing my career, and finding a nice girl with whom to begin a family of our own. I feel I'm missing the vital early years of my beautiful niece, Rylee. I want a day of skiing with my friends. I want to watch Duck football. I want Oregon rain on my face.
Above all, I want to devote more time to family and friends. Support them enthusiastically in their life decisions with the same gusto as they have shown me in mine. To provide the people I love most with the same kindess I've received from people I barely know. I want my home to be open to anyone who needs it. I want to meet travelers in their journey and show them the same kindess I've received in mine.
The questions still remain unsanswered; is this worth the extreme lifestyle adjustment? Are these experiences worth missing the experiences at home? Right now, the answer is a hesitant yes because it's only been five months since leaving, everything is still so new and exciting. However, at six months will Christmas pass so easily? At twelve months will I be strong enough to miss Rylee's first birthday? At seventeen months can I miss another holiday season away from family and friends? At twenty-four months can I endure another month or two at sea while we sail our final return passages to Oregon?
I can't provide a solid answer now and I doubt I will until this voyage is complete. I'll have an answer when I return to share with those dear to me my experiences and who I've grown to become. I'll know when I re-meet the loved ones that are growing themselves without me and learn about the experiences I've missed. The only way I'll have an answer is to finish what I've started; to fulfill this commitment to myself.
You know you're in Africa when...
Whaddup G-Raff?

Impala? Chevy Impala?

This elephant has his front left leg up for a reason...

He was preparing to charge us. Drive! QUICK!

Yah, that's a flippin' zebra.

I only cut off rhino horns in my photos.

Clipper ships participating in an around the world race find rest in Durban.

Happy friends after a real South African braai (from left: Sam's mom Sandy, Patricia, John, Hugh, Sam)

Our Thanksgiving dinner on the boat with Sam.

My first driftwood toilet paper holder.

My second toilet paper holder made out of authentic South African driftwood.







































